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The Dove Ministry
Pastor David May
Bloomingdale, GA
Ref: Life Coaching
Greetings!
When we as Christians find ourselves in a heated debate with the client, sometimes the discussion becomes harsh. At that point, someone inevitably says, “Oh, it’s just iron sharpening iron. Sparks will fly when that happens.”
But is that really what Proverbs 27:17 says? “Just as iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.”
The word “sharpens”, in this context, means to become intellectually sharp and alert. In other words, this is describing a quick, penetrating mind. “Iron” refers to harshness, strength, or oppression.
So we could read Proverbs 27:17 as “just as harshness sharpens harshness, strength sharpens strength, oppression sharpens oppression; so one man sharpens another.”
Too often we see this don’t we? Harshness sharpens harshness when disagreements arise among Christians. Some may think they are “sharpening” in a good way when they are grinding others down.
Sometimes, we mistake the forging process with the sharpening process. When a sword is forged, the metal goes through a rather violent process of being melted down and beaten until it becomes the weapon the creator desires. But sharpening is much more careful and less aggressive. It requires a less vigorous, more detailed touch. Sharpening cannot be done sloppily, because a poor job can ruin the blade’s edge.
God’s word is our sword See>> (Hebrews 4:12, Ephesians 6:17) and while scripture has a lot to say about preparing and training for battle, this is in the context of fighting the enemy, not each other in the body of Christ. Ephesians 6:12 tells us that “we fight not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.”
True iron sharpening iron happens when we encourage each other to become stronger and smarter in spiritual matters and scripture. It is strength building up strength, keen spiritual minds encouraging other keen spiritual minds, even when there isn’t complete agreement. Let us strive to carefully sharpen each other, not harshly pound and forge in anger or oppression. As I learn to be a much better pastor
I get to ask myself “Why have I adopted this as one of my limitations?” And “Am I okay with letting this limitation have input in who I am and who I become in life? Am I okay with the impact this limit will continue to have on my life?”
If the answer is yes that you’re okay with the limitation remaining in your life, then move forward and don’t look back. Don’t waste time complaining about how things turn out due to the limitations because you made the choice. However, if you’re not okay with the limitation, it’s time to push past that boundary to see what’s waiting on the other side.
On the other side of your limitations is where you meet a new expanded version of yourself. On the other side of your limitation is greater freedom.
Here you are given two choices they are "can't do" and "can do" Are you one who is limited?
The only way to discover the limits of the CAN'T DO is to go beyond them into the CAN DO The world of reality has its limits; the world of imagination is boundless.
~SO~
Earning my certification as a life coach minister is a significant milestone that opens up numerous opportunities to impact individuals and communities positively. My primary goal is to use this certification to empower others to achieve their fullest potential and lead fulfilling lives.
Firstly, I plan to establish a coaching practice that focuses on holistic development. This means addressing not only career and personal goals but also spiritual and emotional well-being. By integrating principles of life coaching with ministerial guidance, I aim to provide a comprehensive support system that helps clients navigate life’s challenges with resilience and faith.
Secondly, I intend to offer workshops and seminars that promote self-awareness, personal growth, and spiritual enrichment. These events will foster a sense of community and provide participants with practical tools and strategies for self-improvement. By creating a supportive and nurturing environment, I hope to inspire individuals to take proactive steps toward their goals.
Additionally, I plan to collaborate with local organizations, and religious institutions to extend my reach and impact. By partnering with these entities, I can offer tailored coaching programs that address specific needs within the community, such as youth mentorship, family counseling, and leadership development. Through my Online Ministry, it is reaching out worldwide.
Ultimately, my vision is to create a ripple effect of positive change. By helping individuals transform their lives, I believe we can collectively build stronger, more compassionate communities. My certification as a life coach minister is not just a credential; it is a commitment to serve, uplift, and inspire others on their journey towards a more meaningful and purposeful life.
In his guidance.
Pastor David May
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